Love

Hidden Figures and Secret Loves

Hidden Figures and Secret Loves

My latest observations of the human animal have lead me to some conclusions….

What we do for love is vast and epic. And not always right.

So much of life hinges on appearances and worries about what others will think, about situations we get ourselves into where we have to hide our love and affection for one another.

Love in secret or love now given and later taken away. What’s public, what’s private, and who decides? Especially when we bring in social and cyber etiquette and integrity regarding relationships into the mix. Which affects us deeply whether we think it does or not. We watch, consume and act on what we see in the ether and tell ourselves stories based on likes, posts and photos of what may or may not be reality. Even when we actually talk to each other we are in most occasions full of fear and afraid.

We fall in love so very easily, but we are also so guarded, often trapped in situations that guarantee someone will inevitably be hurt.

What I Learned from Casper About “Ghosting”

What I Learned from Casper About “Ghosting”

“Ghosting” — I don’t like that Casper the Friendly Ghost’s profession has been given a bad name. I mean what did the friendliest ghost you know do to you? When I was a kid the Casper of my childhood cartoons, Golden Books and comic books wasn’t like all the other ghosts, he was different, he made friends with people and rejected haunting people. Again the friendliest ghost you know. He would never modern day “ghost” anyone.

Road Warrior Meetings of Chance

Road Warrior Meetings of Chance

I like elegant women he said.

I like your hat, you look very pretty.

In my country, we think women are queens

And should be treated as such.

I find most of the time my Lyft or taxi drivers are on point.